Knowing what type of gay man you are looking for and is your type is one of the most important keys to successful and enjoyable gay dating. For example if you are a sports oriented gay guy who loves going to the gym and one of your favorite activities is sitting in front of the TV on Sunday afternoon to watch NFL football then obviously you are not going to be a match with a gay man who loves going to the museum and fine art. There is that old saying about opposites attract so I suppose there’s a certain amount of room for leniency and maybe you’re not looking for a guy who is exactly like you. These are questions you have to answer first before you go looking.
But knowing what type of relationship you desire as well as the type of gay guy you desire will save you a lot of hassles in the long run in your dating and singles pursuit. Many times people make the mistake of going strictly with their heart when looking for someone. When someone feels gay dating apps right they pursue it. But there’s a world of difference between attraction and compatibility and it’s important to know the gay dating apps difference. Don’t let your heart even start to get involved until your head knows you are with a gay man who is the type of gay man you are looking for and fits the bill. Then when you know there’s a pretty good chance of the relationship working out long-term full steam ahead.
The most important thing for all gay singles looking for love is first charge of your own happiness and place less emphasis on finding a relationship to make you whole. For all the gay singles out there hoping to find their next ‘gay love’, or the gay guys looking for their next date, I wish you a happy and successful gay dating journey and most important enjoy the process.